Tag: male obedience


To say that we have an open marriage would be a mistake.  Troy is not allowed to exercise his sexual freedom although I do give him quite a bit of sexual satisfaction.   I might even let him have another woman someday if it pleases me.  But it is about my pleasure first.  It was Troy who confessed to a desire to see me with another man first and before proceeding down that path with him, I made it clear that this would not be a two way street.

Since then I have allowed him to watch me take another man.  I have allowed him to participate and at times have had more than two men attend to me.  I have also taken a man alone without Troy but to be honest I did not enjoy this as much as you would imagine.  There was something about being alone with another man that felt to me like cheating.  While having Troy there even if he is just watching and not directly participating, makes it feel different.  His approval is explicit.  In fact, he enjoys my dalliances.  I can see the lust in his eyes when another man is exciting me.  I don’t know that I understand where this feeling springs in him but it turns me on in a way that just being with another doesn’t.

I feel that we are still in the early stages of our exploration.  Unfortunately real life doesn’t always provide a lot of opportunity.  I am looking forward to our next vacation and the possibilities that might bring.


Power, Obedience and Humiliation

They say that power corrupts and I can see how that is true.  Since becoming my husband’s Domme which was a role I was reluctant to take on, I have become very comfortable in the role.  Actually more than comfortable.  We discussed his fantasies first and he mentioned that he wanted to be humiliated in front of my girlfriends.

A show of obedience for everyone to see.  I invited a few of the girls over and dressed him in an apron and nothing else.  I had him greet each guest and serve them drinks.  I noticed that he had a lump in his apron from a semi hard on.  I lifted his apron to show the girls how well he shaved for the occasion and to prove that he was enjoying the humiliation.  He did like it and the more we humiliated him the harder his cock got.  I arranged the apron so it draped over the base of his cock, exposing him for the rest of the afternoon.  I even allowed the girls to touch him whenever he showed signs of getting soft.

Another time, I had him get on his knees and tie my shoe in a public mall.  I made sure to shorten the laces so that it was almost impossible to tie and then complained when he tried to take a shortcut without a bow.  We attracted quite a bit of attention.  Just standing there with him at my feet a tremendous sense of power flowed over me.  I could see that the men who passed by and noticed looked at me with respect and even fear.  Later Troy told me he enjoyed it too but was worried that we might see someone who knew him.

I signed him up for a chat room on one of those pay porn sites.  They allow you to exclude certain states from watching and as such provide some privacy.  I chatted with the voyeurs online while Troy was in front of the camera.  I directed him to take off his clothes, a piece at a time, and play with his cock.  I had him respond to requests from the audience.  To stand sideways.  To lubricate his cock.  To give a close up.  I told him that the viewers were women and made up names because most maybe all the viewers were men.  I told him this later, after he had an orgasm on camera, about the maleness of his audience.

He enjoys these humiliations and so do I.  We’ve talked about buying a male chastity device and using that as a way to embarrass him.  I have no interest in keeping him in chastity.  We do enjoy our lovemaking.

I was wondering if anyone had any other suggestions for humiliating Troy.