I have put a chastity device on my husband but never for more than 10 hours. I do not believe in keeping him in chastity but as a tool for playtime it can be a lot of fun. When he is bound I tease him and I do threaten to keep him that way. I do admit I get a thrill out of the idea of complete control over his sexual behavior. But I like his cock too much to keep it hidden away and I guess I’m not that mean.
I tease him by masturbating in front of him and making him watch me. I use my fingers and a vibrator and these orgasms are quite powerful as he strains against the restraints of the cage. I can see the desire in his eyes and he often pleads to be set free.
When he pleads I let him lick my pussy. He is very good at this and I do enjoy it immensely. I love to tell him stories about other men will have and what I will do to them and let them do to me. How I will have them both.
Sometimes we go out to dinner and/or dancing while he is locked up and I always wear something sexy or in some cases don’t wear something. I have a see-through blouse that shows off my prettiest bra. And a short skirt that I wear without panties. I especially like to go dancing in this combination.
When I do release him he is so ready to fuck me. I make sure he warms me up first although I am usually as anxious as he to romp around in the bed. He gives me a good fuck as well although I seldom have an orgasm this way alone. Sometimes I will belittle him for this although I don’t do this often. More likely I tell him how wonderful he is and how much I love him. Such is the paradox of my Domme/dub relationship.